It is possible that you were in a toxic relationship for a long time or met a married man, and one fine day, you decided that everything was enough for you and decided to start your life from scratch. How to forget love? What needs to be emphasized first of all, so that you succeed?
Stop looking for the right occasion
Many people are waiting for some specific beautiful number for this, usually Monday, the beginning of the month or January. In fact, you need to start a new life as soon as such a desire arose. If you want to forget your old love and start living in a new way, then first say goodbye enchantingly to your past. How can I do that? Of course, our subconscious mind works on very vivid images, and over the years of verbal communication, it best perceives images supported by words.
1) Forget past love and make a bachelorette party. Remember how girls say goodbye to their old life before going down the aisle. Gather your trusted friends and go to the city’s best night club. Have fun and take beautiful photos.
2) If finances allow, you can order a cake with an image of a former lover. Believe me, you will like to stick a knife into it, especially if the pain has not yet subsided. It is also not in vain, in many tribes, it is customary to eat their enemies. Because the modern criminal code does not sleep, you can do it symbolically by eating a delicious cake that is clearly more appetizing than someone’s entrails. Make beautiful staged photos, try to put all your artistry into them.
3) If beautiful sky lanterns are sold in your city, then on the one hand you can write all the bad things that happened in your life, and on the other, the name of the person who caused you all this pain, you can also add a couple of unflattering epithets. Do not forget to take a picture of it, you are guaranteed to get very beautiful photos, just do not write your name, your subconscious and your friends so everything is clear.
Give yourself romance, especially if you have never released sky lanterns into the sky while in a relationship with your ex. If you let him go, it’s also good when he sees that you have turned his romantic impulses into a farce, then you will hurt him too, of course, not like he did to you, but anyway,
4) If you can’t get a flashlight, get a regular balloon. By the way, you can do this additionally, even if you have already launched sky lanterns with your friends to consolidate the effect. Write, the name of your ex and add, something like "go to ...", well, then, of course, to the best of your upbringing. Of course, you shouldn’t write a surname either, but to make a couple of photos is very good.
5) Put all these photos on a social network, in an album called "Farewell to a past life." Of course, you no longer have a way back, you cut off all the escape routes, for you the possible movement is only forward, to a new life and forget your beloved.
6) Of course, you did not write the names and it would be difficult for your ex-boyfriend to present something to you, but if you are sure that he is paranoid-schizophrenic, and can file an application with you to the police that, while eating a cake with his image, threatening him, do even better.
Buy a regular cake, put any man’s figure on top of it, it’s quite possible that in your city you can only get figures of the newlyweds, then try to carefully separate them. For the remaining money, order a print on a T-shirt with the words: “My ex is small” and break to a meal with your beloved friends. Of course, the main thing is to have the courage to post such photos later.
Think about what you want to get rid of
It is possible that these will be not only things related to your past boyfriend, but also some things that you have not worn for a year. Forget about the altruistic idea of taking unnecessary junk to the orphanage. Many modern orphanages are well funded by the state, so only new, fashionable things, and most importantly with labels, accept things.
Think about which photos you want to delete your favorite. What gifts do you want to throw away. What are the things that you went on dates, or went on vacation with the former, and which are really associated with him and provoke bad memories. Just don’t overdo it - don’t throw away those neutral things that you bought long before the guy appeared, in which you look incredibly good and who bring you happiness and good luck.
We consider only those things that are associated with bad memories and have absorbed negative energy. Try to sell these items and gifts first. If nobody wants such junk, then you can just burn it, only for your mystical actions - choose a place where you can not harm anyone.